I want you to be so calm someday that it scares people.
Be calm might seem like an odd choice for The 10 Laws of the Alpha Male, but I’m dead serious.
Being calm is a super power.
To varying degrees most people are riddled with anxiety, emotional instability, and inner chaos of every kind under the sun. Double that for most women.
Beta males in particular have minimal control over their body and emotions, very much like women.
Intentional, authentic calmness will get you far in life as an alpha male. For women it will feel like gravity is drawing them towards you.
Most men will respect you for this, even admire the calmness, especially when it’s tested by any amount of pressure.
Be the calmest guy in the room, always.
Dealing with a cop? That dude has a loaded gun on his hip. For all you know his wife cheated on him last night and he’s twelve beers deep.
You have no idea.
Your best default course of action? Be calm. Move calm. Speak calm.
You have everything to gain by being calm, and staying calm. Everything to lose with sudden movements and a loud, fast voice.
The same applies for virtually every other domain of life, especially when dealing with someone who has authority over you in a given context. (Even something as stupid as a coffee shop manager).
Calmness in excess can be bad. It becomes inauthentic when reality demands something different.
Stoicism is popular among young men today. This can also be cope bullshit. Sometimes calmness is not the answer.
But it’s almost always the best first answer, and a default state to maintain clear thinking, feeling, and general alphaness.
Calmness is not the lack of emotions or total restraint. Being calm does not equal being a passive robot.
Being calm means staying in command of your body, mind, emotions, and above all focus.
As an alpha male you are the driver and author of your own life. To be alpha is to be calm.
Unless and until it's time to switch gears.
Watch this preview above from my keynote speech The Future is Still Masculine to see this in action.
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